I’ve learned that in order to be the best play therapist I can be, in addition to the suggestions I've already mentioned, I need to incorporate self-care strategies into my life on a daily or weekly basis that are simple and connected to my five senses. They’re things that bring a smile to my face and peace to my life.
Scented candles and room and linen sprays appeal to my sense of smell and rubbing scented lotion on my hands appeals to my sense of touch. I have a particular fondness for anything lavender as I find it to be very calming.
Small pieces of chocolate that I slowly nibble and savor satisfy my sense of smell and taste.
Listening to music brings a smile to my face and leaves me feeling invigorated. Pandora radio is a free app and I can pick the style of music I want to hear.
Cotton socks make me feel good all over. I buy them by the bundle so I always have a new pair to grab after a particularly difficult day. A couple of times a month, when I get home from work, I prop up my feet, pull on a new pair of socks and relax. Just seeing them in my sock drawer is comforting to me. If you know a fellow play therapist that could use a little pampering send them a new pair of socks with instructions to put them on after a challenging day. Ask that they pay it forward by sending a pair to another therapist.
The most important way I nurture myself is to stay connected to my inner child. I keep a favorite childhood photo on my desk. When feeling overwhelmed I look at the photo and wonder what little girl Pam would say to big girl Pam. She often reminds me to stop and play. Whether it’s running my hands though the sand tray, scribbling with a marker or blowing bubbles I always feel better when I take her advice.
Are you nurturing and caring for yourself? What strategies are you using? If you’re not incorporating self-care into your day or week I challenge you to find five things, one for each of your senses, that will help you feel nurtured, cared for and prized.